Breakthrough Parenting Program

First, for ANYTHING to work, you’ve got to believe it!!

Here’s why I am so confident. Because it’s the only program I know that doesn’t JUST focus on cognitive (brain based) teaching and learning, or JUST on being heart-centered. Breakthrough Parenting Program features the dual benefit of both cognitive-based teachings and heart-centered integrations.

It’s the only program that considers both your child’s needs AND your needs together. Your child’s needs matter. Your needs matter.

I’m not giving you another tactic or tool. What you’ll be internalizing is a process that will open your awareness to underlying needs, both for you and your child, at the root of the unrest you both feel.

AND...light you up from the inside out. 

If you feel like you're a firecracker wrapped in duct tape, then this is YOUR time to take the duct tape off!

We’ve got a monthly meeting for that!

We’re not saying the typical “oh, change starts with you”. We’re saying we’re actually going to walk you through how to apply SHUAVE and Boundary Circles and the other foundations inside BPP to your experience with your partner/co-parent…and we’ll give you LIVE support in doing so.   This focus group meets monthly, and the parents inside Breakthrough Parenting Program and The Cove treasure it.  Here's what one member emailed her Cove Leader after the focus group:

Breakthrough Parenting Modules (6 total) are 1 hour of training for each class, broken into 3 shorter videos so you can use it easily in your life (like a short podcast). Plus 1 hour of Q&A, broken into shorter videos, for each module, which is optional. So you get 6 hours of training + 6 hours of Q&A.

And since you are invited to join us in The Cove for three months, we want to hold your hand and cheer you on in the live calls. 

Plus all Cove Connect recordings are available to watch on replays.

Did you see the list of bonuses???  Ummm...There's A LOT.  Here's an honest truth...you won't do ALL THE THINGS.  That'd be overwhelming. 

The work we do is activation - it's energetic - it's not about putting "the time" in...it's about finding what activates you and putting your energy there.

Your Cove Leader and you will meet and discuss your needs and create a unique path just for you.

All the bonuses are there so that we can craft a path for you that taps into this bank of resources.  And, we'll go one step at a time, at a pace that is both secure, stable, doable, and energizing for you.

Ahhh...this is actually a program where you can breathe.  We've genuinely got you!

That's right - we're coming out and addressing this one head on.  "But it's not Sonali" is what members in BPP and The Cove think before they join.

So, go ahead, think it...

And, this is what members say after their first Vision call with their Cove Leader:

"I must say I was hesitant about this one. To be blunt, I was not sure if it would be of great value... What I know now is that I'm absolutely enchanted with the vision call I had with Marisa!!  It was so nice, connected, authentic and fun. Wow!!"

This really depends on you, your child and where your relationship is right now.

Having said that, I've got to also say - THE FIRST VIDEO video has brought IMMENSE relief for parents time and time again.  How???  Because we are activating what is already inside you.  Check out what Nicole had to say after watching only the first video...

""Sonali’s view on play has been profoundly transformative. I have always made sure to take time to play with my son each day, but as a single mom, I often have a brain full of 10 million things I also have to do when I’m done playing. What I’ve learned from Sonali is that I’ve been giving my son attention, but not the connection he craves. Since I’m not able to take things off my to-do list, what I’ve learned from Sonali is to bring the intention of connection into all the moments of parenthood, and instead of checking “Play” off my to-do list, I’m BEING more playful. My son is responding beautifully! He’s soaking it up, and I am having way more fun in parenting again."

From my experience, what I’ve seen is that while a child may age-out of hitting, biting, kicking, screaming behavior, without meeting core needs, the energy of aggression within them is still unresolved. So, as a teen they may tease their sibling, pressure friends into doing something they don’t want (or feel pressured into something), sneak tech time, or interrupt and not let others share their perspective. Oh, and the screaming just turns into yelling. That’s not what we want, is it? When we look to uncover core, underlying needs (ours and theirs), we find ways to meet them us and where they are. That’s why what you’ll learn is not a tactic or a tool – it is a process to bring your awareness to underlying needs, yours and theirs, so that we have the skills to resolve the NOW struggles with our highly-sensitive, strong-willed kids, and so we also have the confidence to resolve the TOMORROW struggles. They aren’t going to age out of the high-sensitivity or strong-will…that’s part of them, so let’s create stability, clarity, security, and JOY by meeting both their needs and yours, so that you feel confident as a parent no matter what challenges arise.

Most of the parents inside Breakthrough Parenting Program are here because their child expresses with aggresssion and it feels so very painful to us as sensitive, aware parents. I see aggression as communication from our child about an unmet need. It often times is anxiety (feeling disconnected from their sense of safety). The anxiety may arise because they are a sensory-sensitive kid. So, the kid hitting his little brother may be because the brother's squealing was too loud for his ears, or he needed space to decompress after school. Or he may have hit his brother because he was upset about us saying "no" to candy before dinner and he didn't know how to sit with that disappointment. Or maybe his heart was hurt at school by a friend teasing him (again, he didn't feel safe with the hurt, and he may not know how to assert his need to be treasted kindly with his friend). These are all different reasons and we'd bring our awareness to what's going on for him. When we understand that need, we can support our child in feeling capable and confident in communicating his needs. So, if it's too loud for that child, support him in learning it's ok to share that and express the importance of his need. Often highly-sensitive, strong-willed children need support in understanding their needs, and learning it is ok for them to have boundaries. They think that their boundaries need to be harsh (hence you see aggression) and we will support them in experiencing that their needd are heard without harshness. And, this is what allows them to tap into a deeper sense of empathy. I see connection as an equation, connection = empathy + boundaries, for our kids and for us. Many parents inside BPP are here because they've tried 1:1 time, holding space for big emotions, etc, and while it got them part of the way, because they weren't addressing the underlying need, it didn't get them all the way where they wanted to be. In fact, that's exactly how I came to develop the systems I share - because I sat in the same place several years ago. They're not tactics; they are processes to meet ourselves and our child where we are, open our awarness to underlying needs, and create stability and security by meeting both our needs so that we can enjoy our relationship with our child.

$497. We want to help as many families as possible. Because Breakthrough Parenting Program is an online course, we pass the savings on to you by keeping the cost low and including additional support and coaching.

With this low price, each week of Breakthrough Parenting support costs less than $100, and the videos are yours - - forever!  And, this includes so much more than information. It is about activating that radiant, delight from the inside-out sensation inside you so that you can finally parent in a way you're proud of. Not to mention all the additional support and coaching that is available to you for 3 months!

Members are able to ask Sonali and Cove Leaders questions on Facebook and support each other.  However, we have several members that choose not to be on Facebook for a variety of reasons, and they get what they need out of this community through BPP lessons, live calls, and interactions with their Cove Leader.  It's not about needing to do every component - it's about finding your SPARK each week inside BPP and The Cove, and activating that.

At the button below, Mama!  I can't wait to support you!

Please email us at [email protected], and we'd be happy to support you.