SHOW OF HANDS, PEACE-LOVING MAMAS
How many times have you found yourself muttering something like this:
- "Everyone said a regular routine would stop the whining and crying… I have that, so why does doing ANYTHING Take.So.Long?"
- “Just getting them dressed is a daily struggle. I can’t deal with another morning of meltdowns like that.”
- "Bedtimes are meant to be warm and connecting. I want snuggles, not screaming showdowns!"
- "Trying to be light and playful is getting exhausting. I don’t have the energy to encourage them every time we need to sit down to dinner or to turn off the TV. I just want to eat!"
- "I give the warnings, I play, I offer a snack I know they like at home… but all I see is sulking, whining and crying. What am I doing wrong?"
- "Is my kid just a really spoiled brat? Why do they make everything so difficult?"
Yep! It’s 100 percent reasonable to wish that something as simple as putting a few toys away or pulling on a jacket could actually be THAT simple…But, there’s a reason transitions get tricky for kids… (And it isn’t because they’re just being difficult or spoiled…)
GOT A ROUTINE THAT'S JUST NOT WORKING?
THEN YOU DON'T NEED ANOTHER!
You need an effective way to conquer and transform transitions.
CHANGE TRANSITIONS FROM FUSSINESS, WHINING, AND CRYING INTO CONNECTION AND COOPERATION...
...without sacrificing your needs or your child’s needs, so you can stop bartering and start motoring through your schedule. (Imagine holding hands, smiling and sliding downhill smiling on rollerblades.)
So let me ask you…
- Would you rather eat a slug than deal with another messy morning just getting out of the house?
- Are you absolutely DONE with fights over tidying up, eating dinner, taking a shower or getting to bed?
- Does the thought of another battle over TV, iPad or Nintendo-time make you want to banish screens forever and move to a remote island?
If you answered yes to any of these, you are not alone. You see, only a few years ago, I was in the exact same position you are in now.
Hi, I'M SONALI...
Recovering routine-aholic and mom to 3 high-needs kids who were very, and I mean very, sensitive to change. I tried visual charts and repeated warnings. I got down on the floor, made eye contact, played with my child and then announced the next thing we had to do. No juice. In the end, transitions got so exhausting, I started skipping the bits that were really hard.
Until I began to see what my kids really needed to embrace change. And it wasn’t about a solid routine. It wasn’t about keeping patient or staying playful.
Now I want to share the exact same methods I used with you, so that you too can savor the flavor of a kid who can fly with routines, roll with changes and put the iPad down without so much as an eye roll. (Okay, okay, maybe an eye roll, but nothing else.)
BUT BEFORE I DO, LET'S TALK ABOUT
THE REAL ISSUE
Most parents are led to believe that making transitions easier means making them more predictable, playful or appealing.
That only helps a little because kids like ours with high needs are particularly sensitive to change.
They sense change in their bodies, and it doesn’t feel safe.
Imagine that creepy sensation you have when you sense a big spider crossing the room just outside your vision. That’s how change feels for our kids.
And because they are also extremely passionate and persistent, they hold on as long as possible to that groove they were in… the safe groove.
And that’s why cookie-cutter, one-size-fits-all advice like sticking to routines or 1-2-3 warnings only help a little…because they were not created to respond to that real and unseen need that a transition kicks up for them.
If you are one of the thousands who have tried the advice parenting experts give to keep calm and consistent, stick up a daily schedule, encourage, play, or reward, and your kids don’t respond the way they’re supposed to - you can take a breath…
BECAUSE THERE IS A BETTER WAY.
A PERSONALIZED WAY.
WELCOME TO:
THE TRANSITION MISSION
MY TRIED-AND-TESTED, STRESS-BUSTING PLAN FOR SMOOTH TRANSITIONS
Learn how to give personalized responses that open connection, communication and cooperation between you and your child with my four-mission, live-with-me program:
- How to identify your child’s unique core needs around transitions
- Pattern interrupts, so that you know what and when to switch up your transition strategy
- Ways you can respond to their needs that align with their core energies, so you know just what gets them motivated and inspired to get moving
- Mental shifts you can make to avoid overload and overwhelm
- Insta-connects you can use to lighten the mood in seconds, so your schedule stays intact and you don’t get exhausted
Take a look at what's waiting inside this program for you:
MISSION #1
MAY THE FORCE BE WITH YOU
Your game plan for diffusing the opposing forces that make transitions explosive. Expect some Yoda-like mindshifts (and way less stress).
MISSION # 2 STABILITY STRUCTURES
Use insta-connects that soothe and stabilize - and only take seconds - so transitions feel like skipping from one safe groove to another.
MISSION #3
RE-PROGAM YOUR PATTERNS
We'll diagnose the patterns that stall transitions and sidetrack your plan, so that you can confidently override them and get aligned through Boundary Circles™️.
MISSION # 4
USE
INSTA-DIFFUSERS
Read your child’s needs and respond using The S.H.U.A.V.E Process™️ to their core energies with scripts and examples you can use right away.
"Sonali is safe, transparent, and authentic. She models the strategies that she teaches in all of her relationships. I now feel much more equipped and empowered to handle those tricky parenting moments when they arise."
Erica, mom of 2, ages 14 and 10
"My son has grown and stretched in leaps and bounds...and so have I. I recommend Sonali to anyone who is ready to do the work and experience how wondrous life can be as a parent of a strong-willed child."
Nahline, mom of 9-year-old
"I don't remember when was the last time we all laughed so hard. It was liberating to let go of my agenda and just be in the moment. And we had such a wonderful connection time!"
Ania, mom
GET STARTED TODAY
Get to the root of why the routines you've established aren't serving you - and change them!
14-DAY MONEY-BACK GUARANTEE
If you’re not 100% satisfied with this program after 14 days, we will gladly refund every penny you paid for it.
AND BECAUSE ICE CREAM TASTES EVEN BETTER WITH CHOCOLATE SAUCE:
DON'T MISS THESE BONUSES.
+ Private Community Group: We’re here to cheer you on, and because we know what it’s like to be a parent, and that a kid will get sick, or life will happen, we’ll be there cheering you on, keeping you energized about each mission. Our private community is a warm and wise group of folks who get how easily transitions can squash a plan.
+ Buy Today Bonus: Keepin’ It Together When Family Gets Together. This training helps you blend together in harmony in time for family gatherings and outings. (It's kinda like syrup for your pancakes.)
+ Live Tune-Ups: You'll get invites whenever Sonali goes live in the group to deep-dive a module. Come get personalized support and workshop your next breakthrough.
JUST IMAGINE
Suggesting a fun way to tidy up and your child... agreeing!
Having your child put on their own shoes or jacket!
Telling your child you'll be leaving the park in five minutes - and actually leaving in 5 minutes!
Knowing the right words to say when your child starts to stall, so you can all move along easily.
Screen-time coming to an end with zero drama.
Giving your child two options to get in the car seat - and them choosing (with a smile).
Sound good to you?
If so, then the Transition Mission program is definitely for you.
We'll help you figure out the patterns that your child uses to stall and respond to them in a heart-centered way that feels good and leaves you feeling confident and energized.
YES! I'M SO READY FOR THIS
THE TRANSITION MISSION
Get to the root of why the routines you've established aren't serving you - and change them!
